Welcome to Your Thriving Life!



Life isn’t about pursuing happiness.

It’s about learning how to BE happy. 



The kind of happiness that arises naturally and effortlessly from within us,
when we are truly nourished and fulfilled …

not from competing, dehumanizing, or exploiting others or the Earth,
but from cultivating our own genuine self-care
and real connections that honor and create thriving for ALL.



In the end, we all just want to belong and be loved, secure, and happy.
Why is that so hard? 

Why is there so much confusion and pain in some of our most cherished relationships, no matter how hard we try to make them work?
And why do our heroic, endless efforts to “get ahead” in life leave us at best stressed, exhausted, anxious, and overwhelmed? And at worst resentful, angry, hopeless, or depressed? 



The good news is, there’s nothing wrong with humanity itself. 

And there’s nothing wrong with you. 
(Or me. Or them.) 



We just live in a win/lose, dog-eat-dog “Cuckoo Culture” that doesn’t work.  Not for humans, and not for the planet. 

It doesn’t work because it’s contrary to the deepest truths about how Life and humans are actually designed.  And that’s why it’s “cuckoo.”  That’s why your devoted efforts don’t create the relationships, belonging, security, or happiness you naturally long for.  And that’s why this win/lose, dog-eat-dog “Cuckoo Culture” that we’ve been stuck in brings out the worst in people.

So, how are human beings and Life itself designed?


Let’s take a quick look at a few examples:



It’s no wonder we humans behave so badly in the Cuckoo Culture; it doesn’t provide us with anything we need to thrive.

The world is being destroyed by human beings — people just like you and me — who are just trying to “make it” in the trenches of the Cuckoo Culture world. 

It’s time we stop playing that win/lose, dog-eat-dog game, and begin to build our Thriving skills so we can restore our Thriving World.


The things we need to learn
to restore our healthy connection
with ourselves, each other, and Life itself,

are the same things we need to relearn,
to live sustainably again on Earth.


The Thriving Roadmap is the missing manual that makes sense of the Cuckoo Culture and provides a practical, relief-filled, seemingly effortless pathway into the world of life-aligned THRIVING that is our BIRTHRIGHT.

You can experience the Thriving Roadmap through videos, local and online live programs, coaching and mindfulness practice groups : 
  • transform our relationship with our own and others’ pain, fear, anger, and other “negative” emotions … and creates enormous clarity, safety, freedom, belonging, and joy
  • create a deeply safe, accepting, compassionate environment that leave us free to be everything we are — our real selves — with others
  • clarify what truly contributes to our thriving (and in turn creates real happiness), so that we can focus our efforts on what actually works to make our life more wonderful
  • reveal what’s really causing our conflicts with other people, and show us how to dissolve these misunderstandings so we can experience the natural satisfaction, inspiration, communion, and joy that our relationships are meant to give us
Grounded in 5 decades of research and testing, built on key elements from Neuroscience, Attachment Theory, Nonviolent/Compassionate Communication (NVC), and Somatic Empathy, and integrated with illuminating, empowering Thriving Life principles, distinctions, and practices, the Thriving Roadmap has made an extraordinary difference for countless people from all walks of life.



Discover how to stop using harmful Cuckoo Culture strategies that are damaging your relationships, your health, and your happiness, and start making the biggest difference you can make in the world:
learning how to truly thrive, in alignment with Life.

START your journey HERE.

And welcome home to our Thriving Life Community. We’re co-creating a world that WORKS for ALL.  Right now.